Dear Snarky – I’m Getting Attitude For Taking a Pass On Our Family Easter Dinner

Dear Snarky,

 My parents and sister are acting like spoiled brats and being totally clueless about social distancing.

 Not only are my parents, who are in their late 60s, still going to the grocery store almost every day like they don’t have a care in the world but my sister and her six kids are hanging out with my parents.

She’s even dropping her kids off at their house so they can babysit because she needs “a break” and her Bunko group still got together last week. 

 It’s like the coronavirus is happening to other people. My sister had the nerve to actually call me “selfish” for saying there was no way I was going to attend a family Easter dinner. She also said that I was ignoring my parents.

 I’m not ignoring anyone on purpose I’m following the rules. I also have a child with asthma so you can bet we’re hunkered down at home.

 Why am I being made to feel like the bad guy for sheltering in place? Shouldn’t it be the other way around?

 Signed, Ticked Off

Dear Ticked,

 I don’t really have any words of comfort for dealing with idiot family members except know that you are not alone AND that this is the time where you need to unapologetically stick to the rules.

 I would also, and I’m sure you have already done this, explain to your parents and sister why these stay home mandates are so important. Perhaps graphs or a pie chart might help or pictures of overwhelmed hospitals.

 Sadly, the bottom line is it’s hard to herd idiots. Some humans are just predisposed to be morons who thrive at picking and choosing what they want to believe like they’re at an all you can eat buffet of stupidity.

 You can only control your own situation and I applaud you for following the rules. Stay strong and don’t let your family bully or manipulate you into doing anything else. Lives depend on us staying home. You’re doing the right thing.

 P.S. Your sister sounds like a total tool.

5 thoughts on “Dear Snarky – I’m Getting Attitude For Taking a Pass On Our Family Easter Dinner

  1. Melinda Havershaw says:

    Today I saw an entire family mom, dad, 2 older kids, baby in a stroller and an infant just cruising around Target like it was no big deal. What good parent would take their kids to Target and expose them or expose someone else to the virus?

    • Steph says:

      I’ve seen that as well…families with infants walking through stores and parents letting their kids play on nasty playground equipment when the parks are supposed to be closed. It’s insane…”but they’re BOOORRREEEDDDD!!!” I can’t even.

  2. Annie D. says:

    That sister sounds horrible and the parents in their late 60s should be ashamed of themselves! My family has been at home for almost 3 weeks following all the rules and one of the reasons we’re doing this is to keep elderly people safe! It makes me question why we are even doing this if old people are still going to go out? STAY HOME.

    • Carol says:

      You are doing this to keep everyone safe; I am a RN and believe me, there are many patients on ventilators who are under 60, some as young as their 20s. But thank you for staying home.

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