My Crappy Old Year

New Year’s Resolutions are for suckers. I try to never make any because about six days after I’ve committed myself to a life changing agenda I’m already abandoning ship on the U.S.S. Pledge to a Better Me.

Last year I was all about the New Year’s Resolution. I wrote out a long list of things that I was going to change about my life. In my earnest bravado I called it My Manifesto. I can shamefully share with you that I didn’t achieve one of my “promises for change.” There were the usual suspects on my list, weight loss, exercise, being more patient with my children, nicer to my husband, and even try a new recipe once a week.

The recipe one really kills me. If you had told me 20 years ago when I thought I was all that and a super size bag of chips that I would be vowing to try a new recipe once a week as a New Year’s resolution I would have thrown myself off a cliff made up of discounted Coach Outlet handbags. 

Even now, I’m pondering thoughts of freeing the earth from my carbon footprint. The only things that are stopping me is knowing that if I was no longer breathing my dogs would never get walked again and the fact that it would open up the possibility for my husband to date 25-year-olds and I can’t let the man grasp that kind of happiness – ever.

To cheer up I started going over the last year in my head trying to find some positive things I had accomplished. After much deliberation I managed to remember a couple of things that, while not life shattering, were, I believe contributions to a better tomorrow.

The Tow Job

This year I was plagued by a woman in the super size SUV.  Every morning at my daughter’s elementary school she parked her tank in the drop off zone effectively blocking traffic.  Oh, she did make a lame attempt at pulling her army combat vehicle partially up on the curb as a “Oops, sorry, but look I’ve attempted to get out-of-the-way.”

The problem was her ride was so gianormous not only could you not pull around it, but it created an epic blind spot so if you tried to escape its girth you risked being rammed by another car or God forbid hitting a child. Two months into the new school year I had enough. People had talked to Mrs. Super Size SUV, notices had been posted in the school newsletter, notes had been left on her windshield, but mesmerized by her own self-importance she refused to alter her parking routine. The time had come for me to take matters into my own hands.

One morning in late October I set my plan in motion. It was a Wednesday. Many moms were at school getting ready for the monthly morning P.T.A. meeting. The big topic – gift wrap sales. I knew the school office would be empty for about five minutes as the school secretary helped the P.T.A. president set up the microphone and podium in the cafeteria.

This was when I made my move. I clandestinely went into the office to use the school phone while no one could see me.  My call was to the tow truck service the school district had a contract with.  Two days earlier I had used my son for intel.  He was charged with asking at the high school who the district uses to tow vehicles. I told him to say it was for a story he was working on for his school newspaper. Not totally a lie. He was taking a journalism class, after all.

Armed with that information I used the school phone for authenticity, in case the number showed up on the tow company’s caller i.d. When I got the tow service I stressed that it was a critical a.s.a.p. tow job because the vehicle in question was blocking an emergency exit.

Once I was assured that the tow truck was en-route I covertly exited the office and went in search of Mrs. Super Size SUV. I had to delay her exit from the school to give the tow truck time to arrive and haul off her huge ass car.  I found her talking to some other moms and inserted myself into the group by asking who was going to the P.T.A. meeting?

Most of the moms were and I made sure Mrs. Super Size SUV was guilted into attending. That job done I sprinted into the cafeteria and closed the blinds on the windows, saying to the P.T.A. president, “Wow, that morning sun is brutal. No one will be able to see the Smart Board if we don’t close these.” I then speed walked outside to await the tow truck.  I got giddy when it arrived and had to restrain myself from jumping up and down and shouting yippee! I was amazed how quickly they could hitch a car of that size up.

When it looked like they were almost ready to leave I eagerly bolted into the P.T.A. meeting and announced while opening the blinds on the bank of cafeteria windows, “Pardon the interruption, but, Mrs. Super Size, I think you car is getting towed.”

She screeched and then started swearing as everyone ran to the windows to eyewitness her three ton vehicle rolling behind the tow trunk. It was a perfect moment in time. She was cursing and using not just the everyday swear words, but the ones saved for special occasions. Then there was the principal telling her to “calm herself” and to stop with her “offensive jargon” or he would have to ask her to leave the school.

Not to be outdone by the frantic principal, the P.T.A.  president tried to resume control of the meeting, because everyone had begun clapping as we watched the big ass SUV get towed. The applause was reverberating off the cafeteria walls as Mrs. Super Size shrieked that we were all “jealous bitches” and she ran from the school to try to “save” her SUV.

Aww, now that was a good time.

The Make Out Manny

I have a neighbor who annoys the hell out of me and there are times, I’m not ashamed to admit, I live to mess with her.  One summer morning I decided to give her an eyeful. I felt justified in what I was about to do because she had been on her Yard Nazi Rampage since May.

Her newest lawn obsession was the length of grass blades. She felt everyone should mow their lawn to the exact same height –  2.5 inches. I and the rest of the neighborhood were about ready to attack her with our weed whackers. So, to distract her from her grass-blade frenzy I hatched a plan.

Mrs. Perfect walks every morning at 6:45 a.m. It’s during these walks that she does her daily neighborhood assessment which means she lingers and snoops at people’s houses, measuring the grass, etc. One morning I was ready to give her something brand new to fixate on. I had borrowed a CPR/swimming rescue dummy from where I do some volunteer work, dressed it up in my husband’s clothes, stuck a blonde wig (leftover from Halloween) on it to identify it as definitely not my dark brown hair husband and finished it off with a baseball hat.

I then traded in my standard pajamas of choice – XL bottoms and a man’s large T-shirt for a Boobs-R-Us negligee. Just before she passed by my house I went out on my front porch and started making out with the mannequin. I positioned myself so I was covering up most of the mannequin making it harder to tell that I was going to second base with a CPR dummy. Mrs. Perfect walked by my house, stopped in her tracks, and moaned “Oh my God!” as she watched me kiss the dummy for what I thought was a voyeuristic amount of time. I’m talking so long that the mannequin was rounding the corner to third base. Finally, she ran home.

Later in the day, as predicted, she came knocking on my front door to talk about my “affair.”  I suggested we visit outside so my kids wouldn’t hear and then told her it wasn’t an affair. I explained I was a little short on funds and was entertaining gentleman callers when my husband was out-of-town.

Mrs. Perfect got a case of the vapors and whispered to me, “You’re, running a brothel in our neighborhood?”

“Well, that’s one way to look at it, I guess,” and then I added that we were living in a recession and one does what one’s gotta do for hearth and home. She told me that the police were going to be contacted about all of this and I mentioned that she would need something called proof or no one would take her claim seriously.

Just as I had planned my prostitution ring usurped her grass-blade height preoccupation and she spent the rest of the summer camped out in her kitchen watching my house from her picture window. That mercifully meant she left all of us alone about our lawns. The neighbors all wondered aloud what had happened to get Mrs. Perfect off her landscape reign of terror.  I sweetly smile and responded, “I don’t know, but it had to be something major, like hookers in the neighborhood.”  That got a big laugh. “Yeah, right” my cute young neighbor down the street said, “like that would ever happen.”

You know maybe last year did have moments of greatness after all.


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